I have noticed at times in forums and message boards that when someone brings up the subject of bareback sex, some people make comments such as it’s disgusting and should be banned or totally avoided if possible. Some of the people making these comments are gay men. I understand that everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I totally respect that each of us is an individual and entitled to make our own comments.
I would like to provide you with my perspective when it comes to men who don’t use condoms when they fuck other men and prefer to have bareback sex instead. I feel that it’s important to talk about this, because skin on skin sex is a natural part of the lovemaking process. Men and women engage in unprotected sex on a daily basis - even the Pope is against the use of condoms - but I won’t get started on religion! I am a very open-minded person, so I tend to talk about things a lot, even about topics which may be regarded as being controversial.
I am not ashamed of being a barebacker, I do not use condoms when I have sex and I see nothing wrong with having unprotected sex with my partner. We have established a significant level of trust and have talked about what would happen if we were to have a sexual encounter outside our relationship (it has never happened yet). The outcome is that we would be open with each other and be completely honest. Neither of us are seeking other sexual partners, but we have talked about what would happen if one of us finds ourselves in a situation where we do something sexual with another person. We believe that this honesty will keep our relationship healthy and protect us from any sexually transmitted infections if we did happen to do something. We have established safeguards and have promised to stick with them. Of course, the level of safety depends on the level of honesty between each person.
We all have different reasons for having bareback sex, some guys bareback with long-term partners, some men prefer to have anonymous sex, while others enjoy barebacking with a fuck buddy. Whether it be for reasons of trust, intimacy, sensation, convenience, spontaneity, risk or for any other reason, we all have our preferences and are entitled to them and should be respected for them, just as we should respect other people and their preferences.
When I talk about bareback sex and bring you both information and entertainment through this blog, it is because I am passionate about bareback sex. The purpose of this blog is not to put anyone’s health at risk or even encourage people to have bareback sex, this is simply an online blog which talks about barebacking and provides a source of information, pictures and video clips in an online medium.
Some men may even find this blog an outlet to release their sexual fantasies or fetishes with themselves by jacking off to some of the material here. This blog can be a place where men feel safe exploring their barebacking desires through masturbation or self pleasure, as they would prefer to not actually go out and do it for real. At no time do I recommend that men engage in risky activities with anyone. This could be dangerous and unhealthy, but some men make the decision to do this and that is their decision - not mine.
I wanted to talk about this topic early on in the life of My Bareback Blog, because I feel that it’s an important subject and one which needs to be discussed. I will always respect men who have a different view to that of my own, but I will not come into an argument about who is right or wrong - it is simply a viewpoint thing where we can look at things from our own perspective and make up our minds from there. I am not the kind of guy who likes to rant and rave, but I am responsible, so I wanted to give you my stance on where I am positioned with barebacking.
I feel that information is power, so I am happy to share the information and resources I have discovered with anyone who is interested. It is up to individuals to empower themselves before making decisions, to make the decision which is best for them. This blog is not about persuading anyone to do anything, it is simply a place where I like to share my views and the bareback multimedia I find along the way with men who are interested in this kind of material. I hope you will enjoy what this blog has to offer you and I always welcome your comments and feedback.
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