December 1, 2008 marks the 20th anniversary of World AIDS Day, a day to raise the public awareness about HIV/AIDS issues, including the support and understanding for people living with HIV/AIDS. I would like to reflect on this for a moment.
The first case of AIDS was reported on June 5, 1981 and there are now 33 million people living with HIV/AIDS worldwide. Over the past 20 years, research has been undertaken to find a cure for HIV/AIDS and while some hopeful discoveries have been made, a cure is yet to be found. I give credit to those who have taken on the pursuit to find a cure and I am hopeful that one will be found in the future.
As someone who engages in bareback sex with my boyfriend, I am mindful of the risks involved with barebacking. I would like to point out that just because someone may engage in unprotected sex, it does not mean that they are being reckless, because there are various levels of risk involved with bareback sex. But no matter how careful you try to be, there is always an element of risk.
It would be great if men had the ability to make better informed barebacking choices and have access to a variety of tools to make barebacking safer. I would like to see a range of accurate Home HIV Testing Kits made readily available to anyone who wanted to use them, as this may be a tool to assist establishing HIV status prior to engaging in unprotected sex. It might sound a little clinical, however, with just a few minutes of testing between both partners prior to engaging in unprotected sex, it could mean that an HIV status is established.
The benefits of establishing HIV status prior to engaging in bareback sex is that both partners know where they stand without having to guess about HIV status. If both results show up as being negative, then the sex could actually be better, because the stress and worry about possible HIV transmission would be lowered. The same could be said if the tests were both positive because the men would know where they stood with each other. In the event that one partner is found to be positive and the other negative, then right there is the power of informed consent.
Before any of this could happen, more accurate rapid HIV tests would need to become available and also be affordable and accessible, similar to pregnancy test kits for women, which are available in various retail outlets for those who want them.
If men had the tools to test themselves prior to fucking, this would be an additional method of protection. Some men don’t know that they are HIV positive and the window period in some HIV testing methods can give a false sense of security, so care would need to apply. There is a strong emphasis on condoms being a method of protection and they are good at their job, but for men who prefer to have natural sex, I believe that alternative methods such as rapid HIV test kits would be an excellent resource to explore for the identification of HIV.
I have used this day to think about HIV/AIDS and I hope that a cure can be found in the near future. It would be awesome if better protection tools are developed such as easier testing methods where people can test themselves in the privacy of their own surroundings. Maybe this would help people understand their HIV status to protect themselves and others. I would also like to see everyone have a better understanding of HIV/AIDS to help end the discrimination and prejudice those who are HIV positive have to endure.






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